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HOW TO BUILD A HAPPY, LASTING MARRIAGE
Why Most Marriages Fail
The Missing Piece Were you told that Love and Commitment were all you needed to have a happy, lasting marriage? They lied! The divorce courts are full of former couples who loved each other and, at one time, thought they were committed. Can you imagine trying to sit...
One Simple Skill That Transforms Many Communications
Confirming a Message Pay attention the next time a server takes your order at a restaurant...even a fast food drive-through. The good ones always repeat your order back to make sure they heard it correctly. This avoids the embarrassment of delivering an order that...
We Are All Addicts!
Do you have a habit that fits this definition? I recently heard a definition of addiction as "any habit that doesn't support healthy bodies or relationships." TheCravingMind by JudsonBrewer. Granted, some behaviors/habits are more destructive than others, but the...
Replacing Limiting Beliefs with Empowering Beliefs
A Few of My Old Limiting Beliefs: I must be perfect in order to be loved. I am not lovable. I am a terrible mother if my children misbehave. God must not love me because my first husband died. God is stern and judgmental and is paused, waiting for me to do something...
A New Look at Failures
One day I was letting my mind drift...thinking about all the ways Jim and I had failed. We'd failed one another by treating each other so disrespectfully for several years (until we learned better.) Our children were hurt by the conflict we created in their family....
I Sky-Dived Into My Eighties
Why Sky-Dive? Because it's the best way to celebrate my eightieth birthday! This past year, I've been anticipating my eightieth birthday on March 7, 2025. I celebrated my seventieth by throwing myself a party and taking a glider ride over the Palomar Observatory in...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
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