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Living On Purpose
What does it mean? I believe that we each come into this life with some lessons to learn and a purpose to fulfill. Maybe the purpose is fulfilled when we learn to forgive someone who hurt us, or become more loving toward someone who has unlovable traits. No doubt we...
Help, Please! How Did We Get Here?
Falling in Love is Easy! The energy of new love is so all-consuming that we're sure (1) we'll be happy forever, (2) we'll resolve any differences without fighting, (3) neither of us will ever vomit, have uncontrolled diarhea, be unfaithful, disagree with our...
Beware of Prayer
A Feel Good Story That Illustrates an Important Truth Camping in N. California The boys and I were camping in the mountains of Northern California with extended family. We went to the nearby town one afternoon to do laundry. Peter, age 4, with his brother...
A New Look at Boundaries
I wrote a book that is mainly about setting boundaries for others in order to protect yourself against their selfishness, manipulation, or abuse. (Pungent Boundaries.) It took years for me to believe that it was not selfish to take care of myself. I spent more years...
The Compound Interest Effect
Here's a puzzle... Water drop close up You're in a sports stadium that seats 50,000 people. You have a small eye-dropper. You drop 1 drop of water onto the stadium floor at noon. Every minute the number of drops doubles. At what time will the stadium be filled with...
Three Secrets to Rekindling Lost Love
How We Saved Our Marriage and How You Can Too #1. Humility One of the most common mistakes unhappy couples make is waiting too long to seek help. We did the same. It was hard to admit we couldn’t resolve our problem on our own. After all, we were smart, capable...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
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