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The Characteristics of Respect
We all want others to treat us with respect. Ask yourself, "Am I as committed to treating others with respect as I am to being treated with respect?" Identifying some characteristics of respect may help. Here are some characteristics of respect... Behaviors That...
Where do Our Passions Come From?
Why does one person love cooking and another is passionate about golf? One son, by the age of eight, learned all he could about Abraham Lincoln's life and another son instinctively knew how an internal combustion engine works when he'd never been taught! Why did I...
Take Responsibility for Yourself
Controlling Your Partner Doesn't Work When we human beings are unhappy, our first response is to blame whomever seems to be the source of our unhappiness. "He doesn't pay enough attention to me." "She cares more about the children than me." "He doesn't help me arount...
Blame is Relationship Cancer
Blame Makes You a Victim When someone hurts us, the natural reaction is to blame them for the pain we feel. Although that person is responsible for their behavior, if I stay in a state of blame, I am keeping myself locked into a state of victimhood, subject to their...
Happy Marriage Non-Negotiables
Interviews of Happy Marriages Reveal Some Similarities Lately I've had the privilege of interviewing some happily married couples. Authority Magazine is publishing these articles! (A readership of 30 million/month!) I'm noticing a trend. Each couple has set in stone a...
The Benefits of Crises
Crises are rarely, if ever fun. Crises mean an interruption in our routine...a major change in our lives. A crisis can be from an accident, or an unexpected illness or with a major relationship change. Although a positive change, a crisis can arise from a major...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
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