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Obeying Relationship Laws Brings Peace: A Series
When Jim and I were in the midst of our worst pain, I cried this prayer to God: "The universe is an orderly place. There are multiple laws that are dependable. If I want to stay safe, for instance, I will not jump off of a 10-story building because the law of gravity...
Four Secrets to a Happy, Loving Marriage: Secret #4
Review What could possibly be added to Secret #1, admitting you need help, Secret #2, finding an effective resource, and Secret #3, practicing respectful communication and conflict management skills? Get ready! It's a biggy! Secret #4 Since the no-fault divorce law...
Four Secrets to a Happy, Lasting Marriage: Secret #3
Review Your marriage is in trouble. You're either fighting all the time or existing like roommates. The love and passion have disappeared, but you don't know how to get them back. Is this all there is? Is wanting more a wishful dream that isn't realistic? Should you...
Four Secrets to a Happy, Lasting Marriage: Secret #2
Review of Secret #1 Last week I shared with you one of the hurdles to creating and enjoying a happy, lasting marriage. It is the limiting belief that you should be able to "fix it" on your own. With that belief, Secret #1 may be really hard to swallow! If you've lived...
Four Secrets to a Happy, Lasting Marriage: Secret #1
First Barrier The first major barrier to having the happy, loving marriage you thought you were getting when you fell in love, is the belief that being in love and committing to life together is all you need. It's a lie! Love and Commitment, contrary to what...
The PRICE of Being Too Generous
A few years ago, I published a book titled Pungent Boundaries about my years-long journey disconnecting from codependency and setting healthy boundaries. Another way to describe codependency is being inappropriately helpful, or generous to someone who seems desperate...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
I have a host of books, Relationship Rehab Show episodes, and courses to help you find the solutions you’re looking for, whether you desire to grow in your own skills, bond with a partner or heal family or stepfamily dynamics.
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