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HOW TO BUILD A HAPPY, LASTING MARRIAGE
The Red Plate Legacy
When my two boys were little, I bought a red plate that said, "You are special today." Whenever one had a skinned knee, or a tough day, or their Little League team won a game, or it was their birthday, dinner was served on the Red Plate. As my family grew with the...
Breaking News! Parents Are Anxious!
The Surgeon General's Report Recently the Surgeon General announced his research outcome. BIG NEWS! Parents measure the highest levels of anxiety of any other adult group tested. I felt like saying, "Duh!" Nearly any parent in our culture would laugh that it took a...
Are You Feeling Illiterate?
Feeling Illiteracy Symptoms "Makes me feel some type of way" is a growing trend with young people. That statement gives literally NO information about how this speaker is feeling. What it does reveal is #1, that they are emotionally illiterate, or #2, they're afraid...
The Second Way to Stop a Fight
Course Corrections Based on Feedback In multiple areas, we constantly choose a course correction based on feedback. The bumps in the street remind us to stay in our lane. One key doesn't work so we choose another. I bruise my knee on the sharp edge of a table so I'm...
The First Way to Stop a Fight
If you and your partner, (or your child, or anyone) are trying to match wits verbally, chances are it's going downhill fast! Verbal fights tend to escalate and rarely have a satisfactory resolution for either party. If strong emotions are involved like fear, hurt, or...
Lessons Learned From an Addicted Child
When the Trouble Begins A child's developmental job in the teen years is to begin thinking for himself...to gain confidence in herself. That often means trying on different personas to see if they fit. Going through a phase. Pushing the limits. Challenging the way...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
I have a host of books, Relationship Rehab Show episodes, and courses to help you find the solutions you’re looking for, whether you desire to grow in your own skills, bond with a partner or heal family or stepfamily dynamics.
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