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Episode #47: Why People Cheat

Infidelity! People cheat for many reasons. Underneath all of the reasons people cheat is a lack of understanding skills that create and sustain a great marriage, and in Nancy’s practice, even after cheating. Discover enormous personal benefits to co-creating a happy lasting marriage.

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Episode #12: RESPECT: How to Eliminate Misunderstandings

We each have a unique view of the world formulated from all of our past experiences, both happy and unhappy. Everyone’s view of any given event or topic is right, based on their own experiences. This was the first lesson Jim and I were taught when we were seeking help to resolve our fighting.


Episode #11: What is Your Relationship Legacy?

In my Masters Degree program, we each had to draw our family tree as far back as we had information. Then we named any dominant characteristics that we knew of for each person. It was interesting to see that farming and medical professions ran in my family tree. My generation’s past were hard working folks that were responsible for feeding and caring for their own families as well as others.


Episode #10: Speak to be Heard

All fights take place at the “thoughts” level. Thoughts include opinions, perceptions, interpretations and beliefs. Most fights are about my opinion vs your opinion and the battle to be “right.”


Episode #9: Communication that Doesn’t Work

I’ve heard hundreds of couples say to me, “We just can’t communicate!” I’ve heard parents say about their child, “He won’t listen to me!” I’ve heard adult children say about his or her parent, “She just doesn’t understand!” or, “He’s so unreasonable!”


Episode #8: Creating Emotional Connection by Listening to Understand

When Jim was talking, I didn’t want to understand his point of view. I just wanted him to agree with mine! So I wasn’t listening, I was planning my rebuttal or deciding if I agreed with him…or not.


Episode #7: Are You Really Listening?

When Jim and I were in the worst of our marriage, neither one of us was even trying to listen to the other. Each was so convinced of the rightness of our respective positions that all we wanted to do was argue the other into agreement! Can you relate to that?


Episode #6: Earle and Krystel Doudera’s Story

We were high school sweethearts. We were madly in love and optimistically sure we could handle anything. We thought we did everything right.


Episode #5: The Mysterious Alchemy of Gratitude

Gratitude is almost magical! Learn how gratitude can change or even transform even the most difficult circumstances in your life.


Episode #4: The Free Gift of Encouragement

Encouragement, or the lack of it, may profoundly affect your loved ones’ lives. Learn how to give the most effective encouragement.


Episode #3: Free Gifts of Appreciation and Recognition

Appreciation and Recognition are gifts that cost you nothing and yet may add so much richness and connection to your relationships. Here’s some tips!


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