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HOW TO BUILD A HAPPY, LASTING MARRIAGE
Your Upset…Fact or Fiction?
Many upsets are caused by a misinterpretation of a look, word, or behavior. Perception Checks prevent those upset
Distance vs. Connection: Which one Creates Relationship Jail?
Communication methods either produce emotional distance or deepen emotional connection. You get to choose the outcome by choosing which words you use.
Kindness? or Supporting Irresponsibility?
Learning where my responsibilities end and another person's begin has been a life-long curriculum for me. The learning began in my late-twenties when I hired a carpenter to build some cabinets in my sewing room. The first few days he was...
Deep Listening Creates Emotional Connection
I once had a neighbor who came from across the street and said, “I’m curious… I see couples pull up in front of your house fighting and crying and a few hours later they get in the car and spend a few minutes hugging and kissing before leaving. What do you...
We Live by Our Priorities
...Consciously or Unconsciously Every decision we make is made according to our priorities whether they be conscious or unconscious. When I brush my teeth, it’s to honor my priority of using my own teeth for the rest of my life. When I...
Appreciation Builds Goodwill
Feeling Loved Appreciation is a currency that can be generously "spent" to create goodwill in a relationship...or completely withheld to create a negative feeling of being taken for granted. Being appreciated conveys the sense of being seen, heard, and valued...one of...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
I have a host of books, Relationship Rehab Show episodes, and courses to help you find the solutions you’re looking for, whether you desire to grow in your own skills, bond with a partner or heal family or stepfamily dynamics.
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