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HOW TO BUILD A HAPPY, LASTING MARRIAGE
Speaking with Respect: The Salve That Heals a Wounded Marriage
When a relationship we care about is struggling, there are many tactics that are often tried, but rarely work. Arguing seems to be the most prevalent. Defending oneself comes with arguing. Criticism, sarcasm, bossiness, accusations, nagging, withdrawing, judgments,...
Research Verifies How to Have a Happy Marriage
You aren't rolling the dice and hoping for the best anymore! Your chances of having a happy, loving, lasting marriage have gone up to almost 100%! Thousands of Marriages Provided the Data Those kind, geeky souls who love research and data collection have provided the...
Divorce Doesn’t Work!
The no-fault divorce laws that were passed nationwide in the sixties were designed to 1) reduce the backlog of divorce cases clogging the court systems, and, 2) make it possible for a person in an abusive, hopelessly unhappy marriage to divorce without having to prove...
Here comes TEDxMurrieta!
A few months ago my team and I decided to host a TEDxMurrieta event in Murrieta, CA! It's been quite an adventure! The TED organization grants a license to a volunteer passionate about bringing the TED experience to the local community. The requirements for earning a...
The Courage to Choose Joy
I once spent hundreds of hours sewing Christmas gifts for all of my family members. A dress for my mother. Holiday table runners for my grown children. It took about three days to mix up, bake and frost about 600 of our family's favorite Christmas cookie we call...
We Are All Addicts!
I recently heard a definition of addiction as any habit that doesn’t support healthy bodies or relationships. Granted, some behaviors/habits are more destructive than others. But the definition is so broad that it includes all of us in one way or another. In effect,...
What Clients Are Saying
Nancy; From Childhood to Relationship Coach
Respect is the Fertilizer for Love
How Can I Help Your Relationship With Yourself and Others?
I’m worried about being a “failure.”
We learn new skills by having them modeled for us or taking a class to learn. If you’ve had neither, how could you expect to know what to do? This is a courageous new step in seeking help, not in “failing” something you’ve never learned.
Do I have to do this with my partner?
We can work individually, though most of the time, I’ve found that it isn’t just one person creating the problem. When both people work together, there’s shared understanding, and practice, that makes these skills more effective.
I’m not sure if I’m ready for 1:1 relationship coaching.
I have a host of books, Relationship Rehab Show episodes, and courses to help you find the solutions you’re looking for, whether you desire to grow in your own skills, bond with a partner or heal family or stepfamily dynamics.
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